Newlywed Holidays

What to do? I feel obligated to go everywhere, and want to go everywhere. What do people do when they get married. For Thanksgiving we stayed here b/c I had to work, but I am going to ask off and travel. I suppose to go B'ham and them fly to Pittsburgh- but it is such a hard decision. You feel like you have to be everywhere with everyone at all times. I can't even imagine how it is going to be when we actually have children

I suppose I will just say if you want to see me come down here.